Mom: Okay, Kai, it’s time to go to bed.

Kai: Um, no thanks, Mom. I’m not really interested in doing that.

Kai is obsessed with tattoos. In fact, she has me draw one on her every chance she gets. She also has been asking to dye her hair purple. When I explained that she couldn’t have a tattoo until she is at least 8 (just kidding…) she accused me of “trying to make her sad forever.” Gee…I thought I had at least 10 years before I got to hear that.

My kids watch WAY too much TV. It may very well make me a bad mom, but I cannot resist turning on Blue’s Clues or Dora when I need a moment’s peace. Sure, I try the playroom. I want to engage them in some productive play time. But, despite the fact that they have a million toys (believe me, if you’ve seen the playroom messy you’ll know that is not an exaggeration) they only end up yelling and screaming at each other if I’m not in there to act as a referee. Then there’s always arts and crafts. But, they end up gluing each other or drawing on their hands and arms and faces until I need Clorox bleach to clean it off. So, on those crazy days when I am about to pull my hair out, I go straight to Comcast On-Demand and steal 30 minutes (or an hour) of sanity.

When I do, it is miraculous. There is quiet. The screaming stops. And the girls sit, peacefully on the sofa and are utterly spellbound. It is positively glorious.

And, even though I feel guilty the whole time, I don’t feel guilty enough to stop doing it. Here’s hoping I don’t ruin them forever…

1. My dogs farts smell like meat loaf burning. She farts often. It ain’t pretty.

I was surfing for some info on elephants when I came across this town in New Mexico. One I’d never heard of, but one I instantly loved. It is…are you ready for it? Elephant Butte, New Mexico. Isn’t it great?! Okay, so I am fully aware that it is probably pronounced more like the beaut in beauty, but still a girl can dream can’t she?

Just try googling the name and reverting to a elementary school kid mentality. Elephant Butte camping. Map of Elephant Butte. Discover Elephant Butte. And my personal favorite, Elephant Butte Reservoir. Actually, it’s a tie between that and Elephant Butte Lodging. They’re both so great…

I got tagged by Katie to tell 7 random things about myself. So, here goes!

1. I just got my first tattoo in September and I’m already jonesing for another.

2. I think the Blackberry is just about the best invention ever and I can’t remember what I did without it!

3. I love junk shops and think the tackier something is the better it is.

4. I am already getting the baby bug again even though everyone thinks I’m crazy.

5. I feel guilty about being a stay-at-home mom with kids in preschool (okay, I mean, daycare) but I also think it makes me a better mom.

6. I am embarrassed to admit I’m a SAHM when people ask me what I do for a living.

7. I am a compulsive oversharer.

Geez…now I won’t have anything for this week’s Total Truth Tuesday. Okay, so now I tag Thomas, and the soon-to-be Ericksons, and anyone else who reads this blog and has one of their own. If you share 7 things be sure and post your link in the comments!

Be sure to click the picture to enlarge it. You don’t want to miss this article! Thomas and I saw this at a friend’s house last weekend and had a good laugh…I’d been meaning to post this for the past week. Take a minute to read the “suggestions” from this 1955 article in Good Housekeeping. Then, take a minute to read the Proverb below.

The article truly reminds me of alot of some of the Christian marriage books that have been written for women recently. I think there is a big push to return to a more traditional home because the 1950’s have been romanticized by our current culture. But, the truth is, while there were obvious perks to women being more present in the home, there are also big perks to having women present in the work force and the home. (I know, I know. Sayeth the SAHM…but still I’m not oblivious to the importance of a working mom). There is a tendency to demonize the working mom as if they have chosen their job over their family. But, working mom’s have simply chosen to serve their families in a different manner.

Neither is a more Biblical woman because of it. Because being a virtuous woman is not about whether you work at home or outside the home. Being a virtuous woman is about so much more. And, if you want to use a Biblical model, this “good” 1950’s wife is far from what is described as a “Virtuous Woman” in Proverbs 31. I love the description in Proverbs:

10 [c] A wife of noble character who can find?
She is worth far more than rubies.
11 Her husband has full confidence in her
and lacks nothing of value.
12 She brings him good, not harm,
all the days of her life.
13 She selects wool and flax
and works with eager hands.
14 She is like the merchant ships,
bringing her food from afar.
15 She gets up while it is still dark;
she provides food for her family
and portions for her servant girls.
16 She considers a field and buys it;
out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
17 She sets about her work vigorously;
her arms are strong for her tasks.
18 She sees that her trading is profitable,
and her lamp does not go out at night.
19 In her hand she holds the distaff
and grasps the spindle with her fingers.
20 She opens her arms to the poor
and extends her hands to the needy.
21 When it snows, she has no fear for her household;
for all of them are clothed in scarlet.
22 She makes coverings for her bed;
she is clothed in fine linen and purple.
23 Her husband is respected at the city gate,
where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.
24 She makes linen garments and sells them,
and supplies the merchants with sashes.
25 She is clothed with strength and dignity;
she can laugh at the days to come.
26 She speaks with wisdom,
and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
27 She watches over the affairs of her household
and does not eat the bread of idleness.
28 Her children arise and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her:
29 “Many women do noble things,
but you surpass them all.”
30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.
31 Give her the reward she has earned,
and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.

She is a woman who definitely works. She buys a field. She trades. She is, as one of my good friends put it, a “Bad Ass”! She is the farthest thing from the door mat wife described in the article.

I love that this is the example God has set out there for women. This just proves to me that God does not have a desire to have women sitting massaging their husband’s feet and not talking since “what he has to say is more important” than what she has to say (seriously, check out the article). God created women strong for a reason. He created them to partner with their husbands in a way that brings honor to Him. I’m pretty sure He didn’t envision slippers and a stiff drink at the door as the way women would honor Him. He has so much more in store for us…

Just a side note, I got this email just this afternoon from a friend who has a different perspective on the whole thing. I just wanted to make a note and make sure she knows that this was written after reading it a week ago and is not a personal attack on her beliefs/recent email. Thomas and I discussed this whole thing almost a week ago and I’ve been meaning to post this since. It just took me some time to get my thoughts together. I fully respect your right to have a differing opinion!

The other day Ivy took some time out of her busy day of coughing up a lung to disrobe in the living room. I asked her to please put her pants back on and apparently she understood me. She just didn’t fully understand how to do it. Of course, our children are nothing if not creative and she had a creative way of putting her clothes back on…

The Lovings LOVE snow! It snowed Saturday morning and we spent the day hanging out in it, eating warm comfort food, and just relishing the cold wintry goodness.

We were supposed to have some good friends over tonight but Thomas wound up in bed with 103 degree fever and miserable. So I broke out my favorite tomato soup recipe and whipped up some grilled cheese. Perfect comfort food for the ailing. I thought I’d share the soup recipe since it is SO good and easy. My Grandma got it from the country club kitchen where she lives and it is just the best way ever to make tomato soup.

Here’s the recipe:

1 Jar Chunky Marinara Spaghetti Sauce
1 container Heavy Cream
1 can of diced tomatoes (undrained)

Pour above ingredients in a pot and heat through until nice and warm. Serve and enjoy!

**you can get creative and add all kinds of spices and extras to this. I usually do it just like this because I either lack creativity in the kitchen or I am too lazy. Still, this is perfect for adding cool stuff to. Let me know if you do try some things. I’d be curious to see how it turns out!